Scot McKay

About Scot McKay

Scot McKay

Want to hear more? Scot McKay is a dating coach in San Antonio, TX and founder of X & Y Communications, a one-stop-shop for dating resources. He is the author of the new book “Deserve What You Want”, and hosts the popular podcast series “X & Y On The Fly”. He may be reached at scot@xandycommunications.net or on the Web at http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/ and http://www.nottooshort.com/.

Top 10 Excuses People Make For Dating Failure (Part Two)

Last week we talked about the first five of the "Top Ten Excuses" single adults make for dropping out of the dating pool. Today we'll cover the second half of the list.
Date Posted: December 06, 2006

Top 10 Excuses People Make For Dating Failure (Part One)

One of the most unfortunate truths in the dating world is that a disproportionately large number of single adults have actually given up on dating completely. Interestingly, some such people really have no concrete answer as to why this is.
Date Posted: December 06, 2006

When To Run Away 101

OK, I understand that some of us can be lazy at times. But good gravy, how do people like you and I become so lethargic as not to RUN AWAY from certain people we end up on dates with?Granted, the "warning signs" of when to hit...
Date Posted: November 27, 2006

Approaching Women: Making It Happen…The RIGHT Way, For A Change

Last time we talked about how most men have a much tougher time approaching women than most women think they do. With that discussion covered, let’s talk about some ways to make some positive introductions happen. Sound good?
Date Posted: August 28, 2006

It May SEEM Like Every Man In The World Can Approach Women, But Most CAN'T

OK Ladies, I know how it can be. Everywhere you go some guy invariably tries to “hit on you”. Maybe he even goes for the advanced routine of “putting the moves on you”. This could be happening to you every day.
Date Posted: August 25, 2006

What She Really Means When She Says, “I Want A Man To Protect Me”

I don’t know how many times I’ve heard a woman say she wants to be “protected” by a man. Stereotypically, I tend to think of a petite little cutie uttering these words, either because she has a genuine concern that lawless thugs...
Date Posted: August 23, 2006