Writing a Memoir: Should You Do It?
| by Lisa Silverman | December 11, 2006
With the tremendous success of such memoirs as Frank McCourts "Angelas Ashes," Mary Karrs "The Liars Club," and Dave Eggerss "A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius," the 1990s and early 2000s saw an explosion in the genre. The boom was seen in the number of memoirs acquired by publishers, the number of titles shelved in the memoir section in bookstores, and, as a result, the number of memoirs unfolding on writers computer screens across the country. But the brutal truth is that without a few crucial elements, your memoir will have no chance of finding a literary agents representation, never mind becoming a bestseller.
It might help to consider a question thats always puzzled me: Whats the difference between a memoir and an autobiography? Websters defines a memoir as a narrative composed from personal experience and an autobiography as the biography of a person narrated by himself or herself. (The second definition of memoir is autobiography, indicating just how blurry the line is.) I think of a biography as a life story--a full life, that is, unofficial biographies of Paris Hilton or Justin Timberlake aside. Most memoirs, by contrast, dont begin at the authors birth and provide a thorough chronological history of a life now in its twilight years.
Memoirs are, of course, written by authors of all ages, and their narratives can encompass fifty years or one week of experience. The first element necessary to a successful memoir is that experience. Lots of us have led interesting lives, or had unusual experiences. But not all of those interesting lives and unusual experiences are memoir-worthy. At the same time, the life experience you want to write about doesnt need to be earth-shattering to be the basis of a successful book--if youre a good enough writer. Whether your memories should jump from your head onto the pages of a memoir is difficult to judge when youre the one whose lifes literary value is in question. If you didnt think it was worth writing about, you wouldnt be thinking about a memoir in the first place. But its a judgment you must make honestly and objectively if you dont want to waste a lot of time writing a manuscript that will never sell.
So how do you know if your idea is a book in the making? Try to gain some distance and look at it as a potential reader. Would you pick such a book up off the shelf if it were about a total stranger with no other claim to fame? Would you read the description on the books flap and be intrigued? Or would the words Oh, its another person who enter your mind? Jaded and insensitive as it may seem, agents discard query letters all the time uttering the words another victim of abuse or another recovering alcoholic or another cancer survivor.
Thats not to say that if you fall into one of those categories, or another that encompasses a lot of people and has seen a lot of memoirs published, you should abandon yours. But you need to bring something new to the table, whether the experience itself is different from everyone elses or the way you tell it is. And, unless youve led a truly wacky life, more likely itll have to be the latter. How to make it different? Well, thats the hard part. And the part youre going to have to figure out on your own.
As with any genre in todays book market, publishers are more likely to acquire a memoir if its author has a platform, i.e., comes with a built-in marketing plan. While writing the book, start a blog discussing the experience or issue about which youre writing. Become affiliated with any advocacy organizations, etc., who might help promote your book. Its tough out there if youre not a celebrity or an author with a track record. For every Dave Eggers, a thousand memoirists cant even clear the hurdle of finding an agent. This week, publishers bought memoirs by a Washington Post columnist, Cary Grants daughter, the former head of a record company and the Air America radio network, and a woman with a New York Times bestseller to her name. But take heed: another author sold a memoir about a typical divorce transformed by a lyrical yet brutally honest voice and narrative style. That author figured out how to tell an old story in a new way.
As important as marketing is, the memoir, perhaps more than any other genre, depends for its success on one simple thing: writing skill. Too many people make the mistake of thinking that fascinating experiences make for fascinating reads, no matter who writes about them. If youve never written before, take some classes. Work on your book in a workshop or in a writers group. And if you look in the mirror and see someone who doesnt have the writing chops to tell their story right, contract with an experienced ghostwriter or coauthor to help out. After all, everyone has lived a story, but only a select few have both the right tale and the right talent to create a winning book.
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