What to Do When She's Cold On the Phone

Recently, I received the following email from a member of theon-line Speed Seduction® discussion group.(Yes, we actually offerround the clock, 24 hour encouragement, advice on support withand for thousands of Home Study course owners around the world!How's that for backing up our clients and our products?)

Anyway, he asks about an important issue: what happens when awoman who was initially warm to you, suddenly turns cold on thatfirst follow up phone call? Many guys blow this "test" and windup walking away from some potentially awesome women and fun,fulfilling relationships. So let's hear what he has to say:

“Hey All,After learning SS for four months, I have gotten some prettyexciting results; specifically people react to me in a completelydifferent way. I am able to get rapport and talk to women easily.Also, when I do two brothers, the ideal relationship (put it inmy three fingers and eat it) and the energy demo, I generateattraction. I have gotten good at this and at generating biginterest as well.

I met a girl at the coffee shop. After meeting her and talkingfor a long time (like an hour) and running a bunch of patterns,two brothers, energy demo, self pointing, massaging the back ofher neck, etc. I got her really going. She was having fun, shelike me, rapport etc. She wanted to give me her number and I getit.

But when I called her back two days later she was not interestedin meeting. When I call her, what is the best way to take herback to our last meeting? What are the best things to say to makeher go back to those states? What are the best things to doduring our first meeting to make sure that she will want to meetup with me in the next few days? What is the best message I canleave to make her call me back and want to meet? (This assumes wecan't just change venue. Of course changing the venue instead ofgetting her number is better.)

Thanks,

G.”

Good question, G.Sometimes, people change their minds. It can be for ANY reason.You can do EVERYTHING perfect and still you will not get thegirl; you will get good practice and a chance to polish yourresourcefulness.

I also can't tell whether you got her on the phone or left amessage, so PLEASE clarify and maybe I can help further.

Generally, if women are polite but seem disinterested, myresponse is, "Hey, no problem, no strings. I just thought youcould REMEMBER THE FUN TIME WE HAD...and IMAGINE ENJOYING MORE,but best to you, you have a good one."

No bitterness. No fear. No rancor. Just, ok, guess you justdidn't get it or maybe you are just having a bad day.

Now, it is a DIFFERENT story if she is rude, and ice cold when Icall. I've had THAT happen too, and it can be a shock when it issuch a turn around from the first responses she had at the firstmeeting. Then my response is: "Wow...what a rude, cold way tohave to PRETEND to be. Have a good day".

Then hang up. If she's just being defensive or insecure you'vegiven her a chance to apologize and come round. Notice the word"pretend" which implies you think she's not really this way, butcapable of better.

Understand, some women are super-moody, some have an initialinterest, but their fears of intimacy or their frozen nature justtakes over. Some just think they are entitled to treat the worldlike crap. If she calls you back with anything other than anapologetic tone, hang up on her and write her off. Trust me; youdon't need the trouble or bother. Move on with the gift of yourskills and find someone more fun, more pleasure, less bother.Make sense?

For you at home, reading this, understand that an important, butoften neglected part of learning success with women is SCREENING.Learning to look for what you want and also what you will not putup with, and then sticking to you guns.

I will put up with women being ordinary humans, and, like all ofus, having bad moods and bad days. That's just being wise andusing your compassion.

I will NOT put up with women who are perpetually frozen,emotionally cold, think they are God's gift to men, have wild andfrequent mood swings, etc.

Remember as you move up the learning curve with Speed Seduction®,YOU HAVE A GREAT GIFT TO OFFER. Don't give it or continue tooffer it to those who rip off the wrapping only to use it fortoilet paper.

Peace and piece,

Ross Jeffries

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