How To Win In Life
| by Stefan Holm | November 04, 2008
How To Win In Life
In order to win you have to take chances and if you do not take chances you lose.
Everything in life is in constant change, either so we go backwards or go forward. That means that if you never try to make something of your life in the form of business or personal success, you will, sooner or later will have it worse.
Imagine you have a seed from a maple tree that you hold in your hand. The seed will not grow if you just hold it, but as soon as you plant it in soil it starts to grow. Seeds must be in the right soil under the right conditions to grow. In the right conditions the seed grows into a large tree, and progress has been made. This is the same for everything.
But we who have an understanding of why the seed is growing, often go against the laws of nature when it comes to our personal growth and success, and do nothing to grow into that of what we could be. But that which relates to nature also applies to us humans; that there will be no success without growing and developing, which definitely is not done in a passive manner. In order to win in life, we must grow.
So what is it that stops so many of us from taking hold of and really creating what we want, but are not willing to work for? Well, one thing. The fear of failure. Unlike the tree, we people can change what results we get by using thoughts and feelings, and the more we develop, the greater the possibility for success and winning.
So success is not to show your neighbor who is best, rather for you to grow into the best you can be regardless of what others think. For those who dare to go through their fears, which are the old patterns of behavior that keep us in the old mediocre results, the world opens to the success and development. This is what creates great corporations with true visionary founders, who dared do something that no one had done before. They did not allow their fears to stop them. Instead they became the best that they could be so that they could win in life.
So what do you want out of life? Do you want to grow until you have the capacity to be, or you just want to exploit 10% of your potential and spend the rest of the time in front of the TV, with yet another day that does not lead to anything? You cannot win in this manner.
The choice is yours. You choose whether to win or lose. Here, three tips for those of you who want to win in life:
1. Find what you are really passionate about in your work and leisure
2. Make sure you act so that it becomes a part of life
3. Never let your fears limit you
Good Luck!
Hans Thorn, Success Coach
http://www.personalcoachingonline.com
In order to win you have to take chances and if you do not take chances you lose.
Everything in life is in constant change, either so we go backwards or go forward. That means that if you never try to make something of your life in the form of business or personal success, you will, sooner or later will have it worse.
Imagine you have a seed from a maple tree that you hold in your hand. The seed will not grow if you just hold it, but as soon as you plant it in soil it starts to grow. Seeds must be in the right soil under the right conditions to grow. In the right conditions the seed grows into a large tree, and progress has been made. This is the same for everything.
But we who have an understanding of why the seed is growing, often go against the laws of nature when it comes to our personal growth and success, and do nothing to grow into that of what we could be. But that which relates to nature also applies to us humans; that there will be no success without growing and developing, which definitely is not done in a passive manner. In order to win in life, we must grow.
So what is it that stops so many of us from taking hold of and really creating what we want, but are not willing to work for? Well, one thing. The fear of failure. Unlike the tree, we people can change what results we get by using thoughts and feelings, and the more we develop, the greater the possibility for success and winning.
So success is not to show your neighbor who is best, rather for you to grow into the best you can be regardless of what others think. For those who dare to go through their fears, which are the old patterns of behavior that keep us in the old mediocre results, the world opens to the success and development. This is what creates great corporations with true visionary founders, who dared do something that no one had done before. They did not allow their fears to stop them. Instead they became the best that they could be so that they could win in life.
So what do you want out of life? Do you want to grow until you have the capacity to be, or you just want to exploit 10% of your potential and spend the rest of the time in front of the TV, with yet another day that does not lead to anything? You cannot win in this manner.
The choice is yours. You choose whether to win or lose. Here, three tips for those of you who want to win in life:
1. Find what you are really passionate about in your work and leisure
2. Make sure you act so that it becomes a part of life
3. Never let your fears limit you
Good Luck!
Hans Thorn, Success Coach
http://www.personalcoachingonline.com
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