On some seduction forums, men talk about how to disarm or circumvent the social mask women have, called the "slut defense". This is a defense women have against appearing too "easy" for their sexual conduct. But is it really that necessary to manage this interruption mechanism women have?

The problem with trying to compensate for the "slut defense", or anything related to someones sense of self-preservation, is that it's impossible to absolve anyone of responsibility for their actions. And in trying to do so you are risking ambiguity on your part (weak), so if the moment of truth does come it will be a slippery slope since your agenda was not clear.

It is best to be upfront, especially at the beginning, as it's the only way to avoid unreasonable expectations from someone who may not be operating at an adult level. It also makes the experience more enjoyable as both parties are consenting and fully committed to living the moment.

Remember, although the "slut defense" is real, women can act in a way which makes it seem not real. So don't worry about it.

So if she wants to hook up with you she will make it real easy. You don't have to be crude, "Let's go to my place", will suffice. And if she wants to know what you have in mind (like it isn't obvious) then just tell her, "Oh, I was thinking we would have sex". It's direct, honest, and the best women will no doubt appreciate that.

There is no fancy footwork here. There is no need to placate or cleverly hide your intent. Frame it as you two having fun, with no one else around, and let her know you are not one to judge. This covers all your bases.

Copyright © 2007 Vittorio Norman

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