While dating women, body language plays crucial role. It is the one thing that makes women either notice you or ignore you.

People may not remember what you said or what you did but they will remember how you made them feel. If you are on a date, remember than you have to make a lasting impression on her.

50 percent of the message is conveyed through our body language. 40 percent comes from how we say, the tone, the pitch and the feelings we convey through our voice. What we actually say is only 10 percent.

Before you actually speak to her, remember the way you have walked and talked has already sent the message to her. Our posture and the way we move forms 80 percent of our personality. So, if you want to really flirt with her and get her interested in you, you have to make note of the following signals in body language.

* Eye contact: When we look at people, we are not close to; our eyes make a zigzag motion. We look from eye to eye and across the bridge of the nose. With friends, the look drops below the eye-level and moves into a sort of a triangular shape. Of course we look eye to eye but we also look down to include the nose and mouth.

Once we start flirting, the triangle gets even bigger- it widens at the bottom to include the body as well. The more intense the flirting, the more intensely we will look from eye to eye and the more time we will spend looking at their mouth. So if she is watching your mouth while you talk to her, it is very sexy because it could mean she is imagining what it would be like to kiss you.

* The eye brow flash: It is psychologically proven that if we are attracted to someone or something, our eyebrows rise and fall. If they fancy us back they raise their eyebrows in return. However the whole thing lasts about a fifth of a second, quite subconsciously. So chances are that you might not have seen it.

Animated eyebrows. Eyebrows define how the eye looks to the outside world. While talking if you find her eyebrows lively and animated, then that means she is taking effort in what she is saying. Which is a good thing.

* Mirroring: This is the best way to get your body language in sync with her. This is something which separates you from just another flirt. If you can mirror her behavior, she will bond with you instantly and effectively without even knowing about it, subconsciously. Simply imitate and behave in same lines as they do. If she leans forward to tell you something personal, you also lean forward to listen to what she wants to say.

If she moves her hand through her hair, you do the same. If she sits with her chin cupped in her hands, so do you. She will find it quite cute, amusing and deliciously flirtatious. The secret is pretty obvious, as paradoxical as it seems. We all like people who are like us. If someone is exhibiting the same mannerisms we exhibit or use the same phrases like we do, we feel that they have the same wavelength as us. Nod when you want to hear a ‘Yes’ from her.

When you like someone, subconsciously you imitate what the other person does. So in a conversation, if you find her using the phrases you use, matching the tone of your voice, laughing when you laugh, or even something as subtle as tapping on the table when you do the same, she is definitely enjoying her time with you.

* Blinking: If someone likes what they see, their pupil size increases along with the blinking rate. Scientifically it is a given that the pupils of a person expand every time when we see something nice. If she likes what she sees, namely you, her pupils will dilate. However make sure that she is not on cocaine or valium at that time.

If you want to increase the odds in your favor, try increasing the blinking rate of the person you talk to by blinking more yourself. If she likes she will unconsciously try to match your blinking rate to keep in sync with you.

* Erect posture: Body posture is one of the most important things to watch out for in a conversation. If she sits straight up, and leaning towards you a little, then boy, she is interested in you. A woman will tighten her muscles and pull her shoulders backwards. However if she is drooping or worse still leaning away from you, then something is wrong.

* The watch trick: Do you really want to know if she is bored or not? Try this. During the banter, suddenly look at your watch for three seconds. Then look up at her. Chances are that she would look at her watch. This would mean that she is wondering why you looked at your watch in the first place. Secondly she is wondering why you have to leave all of a sudden. That is a good sign. On the other hand a disinterested woman would not really care a damn what you do with your watch.

Other visible tell- a-tale signs:

* She exposes the palm when talking to you. This means that she is comfortable with your presence.

* Her crossed leg is pointing towards you. That mans she is receptive and really love what you tell her.

* She folds her arm across her chest. This is not a good sign. Any kind of defensive or physical barrier means that she is still reclusive dealing with you.

* If she brushes her hair, or her bangles, if she adjusts her clothes, these are all positive signs.

* If that lovely red haired ravisher is interested in you, she'll look straight back, then turn away, and perhaps smile or blush. When she turns away and looks back at you, it means that she is interested. The turn away and the blushing does the trick

These signs are obvious signals from her to convey that she is interested in you. In simple words, it means she can’t GET ENOUGH OF YOU.

So there what you have it comrades! There is much more to body language than the things that I have mentioned. So the next time you take her out, don’t just gorge on a tandoori chicken or indulge in a drunken reverie. Notice her. It will take you places. And put the agony aunts out of business.

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